Saturday, November 10, 2012
Making some sense of it
Making some sense of it, as years have passed, now in great number I have come to see how important and quite special moments we have shared, have truly been. You need not wait till you are old and grey to say I love you, thank so very much. It means a lot to me. You have been there all along. When I think back to the times of joy, laughing so hard we couldn’t stop. Teasing with love and begging to stop. Shared a good cry or filling your glass with a smile in your eye. So precious and yet never spoken, we have but one, fleeting as it may be, it is in the moments we shared that I relish, in the midst of all the ash.
Today I tell you, it is with a softer heart that I for one have so enjoyed you, we might not always agree, but there has always been a shared smile, word, or hug that has meant the world to me.
When we stop doing the doing-ness of life and giving a pause to see what is, it is you and me friend, it is we.
You know who you are; yes it is you and you and you, it is we.
Sunday, November 4, 2012
What do you say?
Surely, there are a few of you out there, that think something more is possible, than this. There is something that will brighten the day that will make known a joyful sound. To be, in the know is where you wanna go. When people begin their share, their what, might be possible, with her what might be possible and his what, might be possible then, we have got something going. Tell you what, lets give fear the week off. Lets breathe deep and give flight to what wants to happen. You can always go back to this. If you are playing Pass it On
Friday, November 2, 2012
Stop Beating Yourself Up
Stop Beating Yourself Up
Right this day, this moment, simply stop, beat yourself, up no more.
When we stop telling ourselves that we can’t, won’t or couldn’t we will then have an opportunity if we choose to begin, underlining the word begin, to see things differently, ourselves and others differently, the world differently.
When we cease the racket that is ever pervasive, and slow to a measure in time more conducive to the process of allowing. When we allow, ourselves to aspire, to expand our being, our thinking, or doing, in ways that best realize the unique gift and talents we have to offer we will begin to realize why we are here.
The trap is to allow; most are constantly treading in the disallow using up energy, time and lives, disallowing one’s own greatness to shine.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Its Really No Secret.
But really, if we think that there is something out there, this really big something and we are just waiting to see… then shame on us. If we are thinking there is not much we can do, who are you speaking for? If we choose to do what we have been doing, without raising the bar so to speak then we have what we have. maybe.
Today we can start to become clear about where we want to steer ours lives, our country which includes everyone of us, but really, no one is left out. We have what it takes; you and me, we have the fortitude, the where with all however we might be coming up a little short on passion/compassion perhaps we have been too quick to grab ours because there is “less to go around”, and that is not true and we have been told a lie. We do have enough to go around and when it goes around it multiplies itself, where there was one, there are many.
Today we can start to give thought to what that might look like, and then start the actions into play, to create something we have the say in, something to be proud and is working well at all levels. Doable yes, but will we, well we will just have to see. Its really no secret.
Today we can start to become clear about where we want to steer ours lives, our country which includes everyone of us, but really, no one is left out. We have what it takes; you and me, we have the fortitude, the where with all however we might be coming up a little short on passion/compassion perhaps we have been too quick to grab ours because there is “less to go around”, and that is not true and we have been told a lie. We do have enough to go around and when it goes around it multiplies itself, where there was one, there are many.
Today we can start to give thought to what that might look like, and then start the actions into play, to create something we have the say in, something to be proud and is working well at all levels. Doable yes, but will we, well we will just have to see. Its really no secret.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
So what are we up to and I think you should know. For more years that I could count on all digits, I have always wanted to have a conversation about running a business and creating relationship, creating community.. Thriving communities saying yes, to how great it really can be.
Disclosure: I had a good talk with myself, this past May I turned 60 and I thought what in the hell would I be waiting for but really. Far too many years have been spent, in “wouldn’t it be great if” and hoping someone else would say yes. Well given, turning sixty, I am not waiting any longer and I pretty much don’t care.
Creating a space for people who are currently a business owner or giving thought of launching a business would come together. We are not going to tell you how to run your business you already know how to do that. We are going to lead a conversation, as to what, who, why where and when of business, evoking different perspectives from which to look at your business and we are going to have fun.
Lightening-up and getting serious will be something we will look at. Being resourceful, engaged and a visionary for your business could bare great fruit. Having an opportunity to keep your projects, in existence, to have a place to speak what you are up to and then produce the result just cause, you said so.
We look forward to you coming and welcome you to bring a friend, we request only that you look for value, and then just see what shows up.
Tuesday night is our first meeting and it will be great that you are there.
Robert Bilheimer Robert Chun
Monday, May 7, 2012
Changing It Up
Changing it up, it is what needs to happen. Doing the same thing over and over and over, is not only boring it produces so little. When you have people lined up to get to your place of business it is perfectly fine to do it; over and over. If that is not the case take a good look at what your practices are and first look at how much time is consumed and what is the result you are getting. People spend too much time becoming proficient at tasks that probably; should be done, away with.
Throwing out the SOPs is first order of business, what has happened to innovation, imagination, fortitude and a good dose of gumption. Business might not be so good simply because we are not so good. Wake up, open your eyes and look to see what is possible… when you actually look to what is missing, and the presence of that which is missing, would move your business in a whole, new direction with you in the drivers seat this, is a game worth playing I would say. Unlocking, your mind, as well as the door in the morning, is where you want to start.
Today, more than ever, when the dime is a little thinner, we all have to be a whole lot smarter or we lose. People need our services, do they , do they really? Human beings are moving about ,most times quite aimlessly looking for someone to take care of them and their needs. That is where business gets its beginning. Servicing the needs of people, and how you design your business; needs, must be in alignment. In what you offer and has to be so good, that you cannot get it anywhere else is what you want to shoot for, or you can be the person that takes great pride in your business and time with your clients. Shifting our thinking is an intricate part of being able to see beyond our current horizon, to something that inspires action. Doing it skillfully, with ease and with passion is what deepens the desire to use your services. Your knowledge can either help you or hurt you depending, on how it is positioned.
Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBD Community room: 7:00 to 8:45 Free to you, just be willing to look for value at every turn. Designed for Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.
Friday, April 13, 2012
Time Flies not
Taking time, to Take time.
What is the rush we think is happening and where does it come from and where does it go? There is a penchant to rush, and should we see someone, who is not rushing it is often, met with distain. Taking time to take time, can be so rewarding and life changing and is something you cannot pay for. You really have no more or no less than the opportunity. Life is full and most times fast and it is only when one takes time is it possible to take time.
Life is something so fleeting and when we take time, the world seems to alter. JImi White a very special man and my very dear friend, I met along the path told me something in which I hold dear. Japanese saying; “when you stand still, the world backs up”.
In business and all facets of life for that matter if we were to take time, to say thank you. Take time to make the call. To say hello, Take time to be the special person you are, it could have the world be; a little lighter and a whole lot brighter.
Take time to do the best job possible. Take time to reread. Take time to breathe deep. Take time to smile. Take time to say I love you and mean it. To feel the sun and feel the breeze. Looking for the sunset and waiting for the moon. Take time to root for someone. Tell them you care.
Imagine a world where people care people caring about themselves, caring about others. Do you think, that might have a positive impact in our business and in our lives, I do.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn. Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Group: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
What is the rush we think is happening and where does it come from and where does it go? There is a penchant to rush, and should we see someone, who is not rushing it is often, met with distain. Taking time to take time, can be so rewarding and life changing and is something you cannot pay for. You really have no more or no less than the opportunity. Life is full and most times fast and it is only when one takes time is it possible to take time.
Life is something so fleeting and when we take time, the world seems to alter. JImi White a very special man and my very dear friend, I met along the path told me something in which I hold dear. Japanese saying; “when you stand still, the world backs up”.
In business and all facets of life for that matter if we were to take time, to say thank you. Take time to make the call. To say hello, Take time to be the special person you are, it could have the world be; a little lighter and a whole lot brighter.
Take time to do the best job possible. Take time to reread. Take time to breathe deep. Take time to smile. Take time to say I love you and mean it. To feel the sun and feel the breeze. Looking for the sunset and waiting for the moon. Take time to root for someone. Tell them you care.
Imagine a world where people care people caring about themselves, caring about others. Do you think, that might have a positive impact in our business and in our lives, I do.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn. Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Group: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
Monday, April 2, 2012
So What's With Excitement?
Excitement
Be excited about what you do. No kidding, if it is knowledge, you have a gift in, share it with others. Bring something quite special into view. Let people into your life, enjoy life and enjoy sharing it with others. There is something they have that they will be able to share with you. If it is Art, display it, show it, sing it, and write it. But share it. . What is missing… could be you.
Take a moment, to tell 2 people a week what you do, certainly you can do more but start with 2 Something you like about what you do, an experience, outcome, moment of appreciation. Lets breathe life into the conversation not deaden it. Along the lines of just being there, see how the other person or people are reacting to what you are saying. Remember to breathe life into. Give something away; a smile, a wink, compliment, word of appreciation and just see what happens.
Today more than ever, it should be a very good idea for people to share more with one another. People who experience something in a positive way have a tendency to repeat that experience over again. And it could be over and over, for years if not lifetimes.
When you think about what excites you, there is a chance, be a slight one that you will have to think more than you might think. Because the excitement, might have been buried, by the things we tell ourselves, and so there is a chance we have left out the excitement when it comes to our work, or to our lives.
If you are having a difficult time locating excitement, look for enjoyment, or pleasing idea or concept. This is to be fun so if it is occurring to be “hard” what is the story you have around excitement.
When you begin to allow yourself to kind of, dabble with these practices, you might experience a couple of different sensations at first there might feeling of an awkward moment. it is just a second, before you get your balance, know that your balance is there. Kind of, like riding a bike for the first time, remember that first sensation of balance, once you feel balance you know it. Creating a conversation, that; is going to empower you and the people around you is where you want to put your focus. This is more about allowing than it is about effort. When we let go of those things that do not serve us and let them really go, there will be space to experience something quite new and most times rather enjoyable. Remember to breathe. Remember to lighten up. This is an opportunity most times for lessening effort. Effort is something that shows up when resistance is present. Trying to make sense of something usually is, grounded in, referencing the past. Trust yourself and the moment to be the right time and the right place.
Remember the times, in your life, where excitement showed up, you know that kind of giddy anticipation of something great is going to happen bring that to your business/life and watch what happens. Get excited and your world will follow suit We feel If you are going to put the time in anyway, you might like to have more fun and money along the way.
Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBD Community room: 7:00 to 8:45 Free to you, just be willing to look for value at every turn. Designed for Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.
Be excited about what you do. No kidding, if it is knowledge, you have a gift in, share it with others. Bring something quite special into view. Let people into your life, enjoy life and enjoy sharing it with others. There is something they have that they will be able to share with you. If it is Art, display it, show it, sing it, and write it. But share it. . What is missing… could be you.
Take a moment, to tell 2 people a week what you do, certainly you can do more but start with 2 Something you like about what you do, an experience, outcome, moment of appreciation. Lets breathe life into the conversation not deaden it. Along the lines of just being there, see how the other person or people are reacting to what you are saying. Remember to breathe life into. Give something away; a smile, a wink, compliment, word of appreciation and just see what happens.
Today more than ever, it should be a very good idea for people to share more with one another. People who experience something in a positive way have a tendency to repeat that experience over again. And it could be over and over, for years if not lifetimes.
When you think about what excites you, there is a chance, be a slight one that you will have to think more than you might think. Because the excitement, might have been buried, by the things we tell ourselves, and so there is a chance we have left out the excitement when it comes to our work, or to our lives.
If you are having a difficult time locating excitement, look for enjoyment, or pleasing idea or concept. This is to be fun so if it is occurring to be “hard” what is the story you have around excitement.
When you begin to allow yourself to kind of, dabble with these practices, you might experience a couple of different sensations at first there might feeling of an awkward moment. it is just a second, before you get your balance, know that your balance is there. Kind of, like riding a bike for the first time, remember that first sensation of balance, once you feel balance you know it. Creating a conversation, that; is going to empower you and the people around you is where you want to put your focus. This is more about allowing than it is about effort. When we let go of those things that do not serve us and let them really go, there will be space to experience something quite new and most times rather enjoyable. Remember to breathe. Remember to lighten up. This is an opportunity most times for lessening effort. Effort is something that shows up when resistance is present. Trying to make sense of something usually is, grounded in, referencing the past. Trust yourself and the moment to be the right time and the right place.
Remember the times, in your life, where excitement showed up, you know that kind of giddy anticipation of something great is going to happen bring that to your business/life and watch what happens. Get excited and your world will follow suit We feel If you are going to put the time in anyway, you might like to have more fun and money along the way.
Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBD Community room: 7:00 to 8:45 Free to you, just be willing to look for value at every turn. Designed for Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Taking It to the Next Level
Willing to raise the bar 5%,
I knew that this is going to be something I could do and I started to look to see just what that might look like. I actually became a bit excited because I am thinking 5% no sweat I can do that.
When one is able to see the value in; the extra thought, task, or concept that will be raising the bar, one’s energy is on the rise. It puts oomph, where there was none. Juices begin to flow ideas begin to roll when you can actually see value in what you are up to. Having fun helps this process to be undergone in an Up- beat manner that will definitely catch others off guard.
What is going on, what is happening with her or him… with you. When one, begins to acknowledge; just who they are, and all they have to offer. It might be a bit like tooting your own horn but you will not have to, for others will sing your praise. Doing more than what you, are expected to do is a great way in which to start.
This is good news… not bad news. Really it is, you shine when you are in the zone. When your commitment is bigger than, the drab ever, familiar tales we tell ourselves, we are actually able to move mountains
When one thing leads to the next thing, to the next thing we are in “the zone”. When, we find that we are more excited about what we offer, and the job we do, there is a very noticeable verve in the air and it starts in our speaking, then spells into our being, our actions, our new ideas and concepts and enhances all areas of our lives
Putting more into what you do, is something that changes up the game. Puts you in the driver seat so where you, are headed is your call, you now have the say so, no longer at the effect of, you will find yourself out in front and leading the way… and we are talking 5 percent.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn. Existing Businesses or Start Ups come lets talk.
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
I knew that this is going to be something I could do and I started to look to see just what that might look like. I actually became a bit excited because I am thinking 5% no sweat I can do that.
When one is able to see the value in; the extra thought, task, or concept that will be raising the bar, one’s energy is on the rise. It puts oomph, where there was none. Juices begin to flow ideas begin to roll when you can actually see value in what you are up to. Having fun helps this process to be undergone in an Up- beat manner that will definitely catch others off guard.
What is going on, what is happening with her or him… with you. When one, begins to acknowledge; just who they are, and all they have to offer. It might be a bit like tooting your own horn but you will not have to, for others will sing your praise. Doing more than what you, are expected to do is a great way in which to start.
This is good news… not bad news. Really it is, you shine when you are in the zone. When your commitment is bigger than, the drab ever, familiar tales we tell ourselves, we are actually able to move mountains
When one thing leads to the next thing, to the next thing we are in “the zone”. When, we find that we are more excited about what we offer, and the job we do, there is a very noticeable verve in the air and it starts in our speaking, then spells into our being, our actions, our new ideas and concepts and enhances all areas of our lives
Putting more into what you do, is something that changes up the game. Puts you in the driver seat so where you, are headed is your call, you now have the say so, no longer at the effect of, you will find yourself out in front and leading the way… and we are talking 5 percent.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn. Existing Businesses or Start Ups come lets talk.
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
Monday, March 19, 2012
Conversations Drive the Bus
Conversations:
What are the conversations you have, either spoken or in thought about your business? The conversations you have with others and with ourselves, directly influence not only our business… but also pretty much spills over to all areas of our lives. We really do a number on ourselves and then we tell ourselves it is true.
Are you having conversations that lift and breathe life in to your business or conversations that suck the air right out of the space? This is not just limited to business but again spills over to other areas if you just look.
We have an opportunity to step back (you got to know I have never been big on the word opportunity because I always held it as OMG so much work for “this opportunity”) it is not until later did I find out that opportunity can actually mean less effort. So go with me on this one and we can take: a look, then you can decide.
Also, know, this plays out in all those conversations we have in our head. You know the conversations that; then you fill in the blank and just what that blank is for you, is what is real to you. It is not until we realize, wake up, have that uha ha moment call it what it is, for you, we will most probably continue to be pretty much on the same path.
We can begin, to sift through and quickly discard the shaft, the shaft we have all hashed and rehashed and which is for all practical purposes, useless to this moment in time. For those who say not so fast and wish to lug your stories and all the rightness you are welcome to lug but do not expect others tow it for you. In addition, know you can do it, just as long as you want.
We: the you-s and the me-s have so much to offer and to be thankful for, and yet we are just “getting by” with any luck. Got to tell you, I just have this notion you may call me crazy, I know it might be too big of a notion but we really do feel we all could be doing so much better. If we just stop, see what is there, then create the game that it is going to bring more fun and more money into 2012 and we do not have to stop there.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn.
Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
What are the conversations you have, either spoken or in thought about your business? The conversations you have with others and with ourselves, directly influence not only our business… but also pretty much spills over to all areas of our lives. We really do a number on ourselves and then we tell ourselves it is true.
Are you having conversations that lift and breathe life in to your business or conversations that suck the air right out of the space? This is not just limited to business but again spills over to other areas if you just look.
We have an opportunity to step back (you got to know I have never been big on the word opportunity because I always held it as OMG so much work for “this opportunity”) it is not until later did I find out that opportunity can actually mean less effort. So go with me on this one and we can take: a look, then you can decide.
Also, know, this plays out in all those conversations we have in our head. You know the conversations that; then you fill in the blank and just what that blank is for you, is what is real to you. It is not until we realize, wake up, have that uha ha moment call it what it is, for you, we will most probably continue to be pretty much on the same path.
We can begin, to sift through and quickly discard the shaft, the shaft we have all hashed and rehashed and which is for all practical purposes, useless to this moment in time. For those who say not so fast and wish to lug your stories and all the rightness you are welcome to lug but do not expect others tow it for you. In addition, know you can do it, just as long as you want.
We: the you-s and the me-s have so much to offer and to be thankful for, and yet we are just “getting by” with any luck. Got to tell you, I just have this notion you may call me crazy, I know it might be too big of a notion but we really do feel we all could be doing so much better. If we just stop, see what is there, then create the game that it is going to bring more fun and more money into 2012 and we do not have to stop there.
Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn.
Existing Businesses or Start Ups
Sponsored by
Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: 626 628 4870 robertbilheimer@gmail.com
RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: 310 410 3098 rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com
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