Saturday, June 21, 2014

It’s Not Over There, It is Over Here.

It’s not over there, it is over here. Spending lifetimes searching; over there, out there, waiting and wanting, wishing and hoping, blessing and cursing as the moments have it. All in looking out there, for it to be okay over here. A constancy in search of and “search” might imply ample effort noting, that might not always be the case. We have this notion that I need to be confirmed, made whole, completed by, others so to be okay over here. Stop and listen; we don’t have to, but really. We have been taught since a very young age to follow rules. Through parent figures we were taught; when to speak, when to eat, when to sleep. Many of these concepts make good sense, probably most, are of benefit. However, when we solely or more times than not rely on, the out there and then are left with a rather empty or unhappy way of being, caught up in what I would term a “false notion” undistinguished as such. Happiness is something that shall elude us, if we are not granted happiness by an outside force or other or thing. We don’t dare look within, and why is that? Somewhere along the line we got our wires crossed. We turn away from ourselves, we find very little love with ourselves. Spend a great deal of time, scolding, not being for ourselves, experiencing less than moments, with ourselves. We somewhere along the line, disconnected from ourselves, and made everybody else “the keepers of our fate”. I dare not think for a moment I have every right to be happy. I shall give myself space in which to be happy right here and right now, regardless the circumstance. That would be egotistical, what would others say? Have I the right to choose for myself? To make a declaration inside a whole world, with no agreement. Holding fast, no matter how hard the winds blow or high the tide rises, to find moments of peace, and joy, serenity and comfort in knowing deep within that love is present in my speaking, hearing, touching, feeling in my very core just because I have allowed it to be so. So all of the other, shall have to recede back to a nonexistence. http://yoursuccessbydesign.blogspot.com/