Enough Already

Enough already with the: “how little can I do”, enough, enough, enough. Start coming from, what more can I do, and how can I help you? Your life will be far happier, and far more successful. Care more about what you do and how you do it. This, is what is missing, everywhere! BUT REALLY! Don’t be happy with doing so little and being put out about it. So much more can be gained and it is not about the gaining it is about the giving and in the giving there is the gaining, but the giving comes first. SO get off it, nobody cares about all your reasons. Your reasons are nothing more than reasons for playing small. WHO CARES? NO ONE! Oh sure, you might be able to get a little agreement from those who play small, but that is not where the game is won.

 Be happy with the job you do, and the service or product you deliver that is what counts. Spend more time listening and thinking how you can make this great. But really leave all of the excuses behind, you are someone who doesn’t need to rely on excuses. Excuses are nothing more than, why you didn’t Forget it, excuses give you nothing and will always give you nothing. Be someone, you can count on, and watch how your world evolves. To: higher levels, opening doors and climbing ladders where excuses would never lead you.

 Excuses have very little if any benefit. In fact all excuses do, is keep you stuck. When so little is count-on-able; be a star in the very dark sky. Be someone, you are proud to be. When people find out because of your example the world takes on a whole new glow. Don’t hesitate and don’t take my word for it, try it out for yourself.

Next time opportunity is knocking and you will know when it is, try it out. Be someone who listens, gets it and is more than willing, able and ready to do what needs to be done. Be someone but really be SOMEONE and watch as you are doing it, how your world changes all for the better.

The secret is really not a secret you know and I know when you are playing full out time passes without a care. Doing what you love to do helps but is not always required. Your word, your determination your willingness to be great really is all that matters and it is only because you said so.

Try it and just see what happens

Looking inside out and rather liking it.

There is something inside our conversation we have with and in ourselves that puts the kibosh on it, without any hesitation wham it’s there. Not always but sometimes it stems back to a decision we made be true, probably in upset that has guided us thus far undistinguished as such, leaving little or no room for spontaneity, a whim, a gush of good thought to lead the way to excitement. Only when we choose not to give up and say that that we want shall it ever come. Being open is a struggle for many in varying degrees. And if you think that isn’t bad enough wait till you hear this. We most times spend an inordinate amount of time in negative thoughts and words, listen to what we tell ourselves. Notice the conversations that go on in your head, oh pretty much constantly and what are they saying are they lifting you up or burying you? The conversations we have with others exhilarating or exasperating? Notice the words others banter about there is a certain omnipresence the water we swim the air we breathe. You need to decide on that which you want, because if you don’t it won’t be there and just know all of it, is up to you. Good news, bad news however you call it is up to you. But really when you really can get that it is all up to you, that is when you can start to fly, but really. Get it and Fly. Our thoughts, our perceptions, ways in which we see the world are so, the deciding factor. No kidding you need to look no further, there it is and you know what, you want to get this, IT is good news. It is good news if you choose to treat it so. There is no, maybe and maybe not. It is decided in our speaking, in our listening, in our way of being, Good news, bad news it is what you choose. We are here and what we decide to do or not do, is really all on us. Taking ourselves out of the game I don’t know about you, but that is something I am becoming more aware of, a thrown way of being I have, I now choose to have a say in that ongoing, and not just remove myself. If you want it you can have it but it requires that we wake up, get up, step to the plate and take action. It is good news only if we say so and I am asking you to say yes so we have a place in which to begin. Being ready is a help but not always required. Many spend their lives just getting ready but never move beyond ready. “I am not ready” is often murmured. I would like to suggest “ready” is over rated. It has a tendency to slow our thinking and our ways of being, imagine not being ready and see what you get. I like better ready or not here I come and let the chips fall where they may. You want to sing, start singing. You want to dance get out on the floor and dance. Write what are you waiting for? Learn, be a great learner. Teach, be the best you can be, what would we be waiting for? It is our game and the limits are our doing, it is not until we get that, do we have a choice.

Disconnect from within and from without

Disconnect is very prevalent, look around and see all of the; disconnect in life. We might all see different aspects of this disconnect, but there will be a theme which resonates that most likely, is a direct reflection or frequency of our, current being. Not anything to get upset about but simply to notice. Most of this is never conscience to us, we move as we will, through life never truly present to the choice in life, ongoing we spend time in our heads, inside of a critical banter, constant assessment, that leaves us half deflated and kind of waiting for the next blow and we don’t have to.

It’s Not Over There, It is Over Here.

It’s not over there, it is over here. Spending lifetimes searching; over there, out there, waiting and wanting, wishing and hoping, blessing and cursing as the moments have it. All in looking out there, for it to be okay over here. A constancy in search of and “search” might imply ample effort noting, that might not always be the case. We have this notion that I need to be confirmed, made whole, completed by, others so to be okay over here. Stop and listen; we don’t have to, but really. We have been taught since a very young age to follow rules. Through parent figures we were taught; when to speak, when to eat, when to sleep. Many of these concepts make good sense, probably most, are of benefit. However, when we solely or more times than not rely on, the out there and then are left with a rather empty or unhappy way of being, caught up in what I would term a “false notion” undistinguished as such. Happiness is something that shall elude us, if we are not granted happiness by an outside force or other or thing. We don’t dare look within, and why is that? Somewhere along the line we got our wires crossed. We turn away from ourselves, we find very little love with ourselves. Spend a great deal of time, scolding, not being for ourselves, experiencing less than moments, with ourselves. We somewhere along the line, disconnected from ourselves, and made everybody else “the keepers of our fate”. I dare not think for a moment I have every right to be happy. I shall give myself space in which to be happy right here and right now, regardless the circumstance. That would be egotistical, what would others say? Have I the right to choose for myself? To make a declaration inside a whole world, with no agreement. Holding fast, no matter how hard the winds blow or high the tide rises, to find moments of peace, and joy, serenity and comfort in knowing deep within that love is present in my speaking, hearing, touching, feeling in my very core just because I have allowed it to be so. So all of the other, shall have to recede back to a nonexistence. http://yoursuccessbydesign.blogspot.com/

Taking It to the next level, willing to raise the bar 5%

Taking It to the Next Level Willing to raise the bar 5%, I knew that this is going to be something I could do and I started to look to see just what that might look like. I actually became a bit excited because I am thinking 5% no sweat I can do that. When one is able to see the value in; the extra thought, task, or concept that will be raising the bar, one’s energy is on the rise. It puts oomph, where there was none. Juices begin to flow ideas begin to roll when you can actually see value in what you are up to. Having fun helps this process to be undergone in an Up- beat manner that will definitely catch others off guard. What is going on, what is happening with her or him… with you. When one, begins to acknowledge; just who they are, and all they have to offer. It might be a bit like tooting your own horn but you will not have to, for others will sing your praise. Doing more than what you, are expected to do is a great way in which to start. This is good news… not bad news. Really it is, you shine when you are in the zone. When your commitment is bigger than, the drab ever, familiar tales we tell ourselves, we are actually able to move mountains When one thing leads to the next thing, to the next thing we are in “the zone”. When, we find that we are more excited about what we offer, and the job we do, there is a very noticeable verve in the air and it starts in our speaking, then spells into our being, our actions, our new ideas and concepts and enhances all areas of our lives Putting more into what you do, is something that changes up the game. Puts you in the driver seat, so where you are headed is your call, you now have the say so, no longer at the effect of, you will find yourself out in front and leading the way… and we are talking 5 percent. Robert Bilheimer

Take the GUESS WORK out of it.

Pssst make it look like you are OPEN for business take; any body having to guess whether or not you are still open for business out of any equation. Take pride in what you are up, shine it up, clear out all that stuff that just sucks the air out of the space, make fresh. When business owners actually step out from behind and then step in from the front, can they then see what is experienced over there. Very important not to over look for a couple of reasons, first being we need to always have our intention on providing our very best in whatever it is we are offering. No second bests, we are providing our best at all times not just when we kinda feel like it and it is okay when we don't, we are talking all times,] and understand this is not only done for the client or customer, it is also done maybe more importantly, for the one rendering the service, it is a good thing always to do our best, and when we do, people know it and that is where repeat business, people telling people, people thinking up reasons to use your service, because they know you do your best. There must be at least four reasons you need to know them why anybody would want to come to you. Why would people come to you? What do you offer that will be incumbent upon them coming to you? What is your value, that you are offering? When value meets up with service you have got a winner. When people wonder aimlessly, not knowing where to turn how will they find you? People want service when I say service it is a mix of; welcome, knowledge, interest, thought, and performance with a dash of of love served with a smile. If you don't think you can do it will then the very best of luck to you. We are about creating businesses worth having just cause we said so and just cause we are up to the game and we want to play. Creating an environment is quintessential if what you offering is feel, touch, taste, or smell oriented. Rest and leasure have an appeal to those who live in mayhem. People know when something is really good, really fresh, really fun. really cheap, really something, to like very much, and when they do you have a loyal client/customer/friend.

Not so Fast, Hey wait a Minute. Por Favor

We need to see ourselves differently but really differently, not reverted back before we have even thought, it through. Seeing ourselves differently is no small task it is not just a 3 minute exercise it requires something of us, it not just a wave of a wand. Being available for a conversation about seeing ourselves differently is perhaps a more adult conversation or maybe it is just the opposite; it is the child within us having a conversation with the adult that is contemplating seeing one’s self differently. We can make it up as we go. But we will notice and be aware, as we journey on. When we ask “what would seeing yourself differently, look like, what might we see? Just look, keep looking, keep looking and then maybe look a little more. See what is there maybe there is nothing, nothing comes to mind, could not think of a thing and just maybe that is because we have spent a life time, talking ourselves out it, before we even start, and making matters worse we have carried that conversation along with us, for a life time. Maybe if you squint a little so you can look real far, there might have been, a time when? This conversation spells over, into all the things that are important to us in our lives, and of course sure some things that are not all that important. It is the simply a conversation and the work involved here is creating a conversation that …. And creating it as we go.

WHO KNEW

Damn it goes fast

One day everything is going right along, the next day and it seems like yesterday you struggle to get the button buttoned and the shoes tied. Sometimes after a bit of struggle I am so glad I got it buttoned I forget to zip. It all goes so fast. Not fair I am thinking not fair at all. When it is so in your face and on your face what can one say?

Getting the most out of each day is so very important for us all, however as we get older there is more of an urgency to it all. So many days and years have passed and there really is no going back which portends to simply squeeze it a bit and get the full taste of that certain something that has been calling you.

Life is so unpredictable better eat your dessert first, is very good advice when you stop to think about it… but really. When we stop, to focus on the things that mean the most to us, there better be something there for you.

Life is forever passing, when one stands still, the world backs up or does it, have you ever tried?

We need to connect with one another and with our surroundings in ways that renew and lift up the essence of really who we are and the love we have to give. When we get out of our own way, is when we have the best chance.

Making some sense of it

Making some sense of it, as years have passed, now in great number I have come to see how important and quite special moments we have shared, have truly been. You need not wait till you are old and grey to say I love you, thank so very much. It means a lot to me. You have been there all along. When I think back to the times of joy, laughing so hard we couldn’t stop. Teasing with love and begging to stop. Shared a good cry or filling your glass with a smile in your eye. So precious and yet never spoken, we have but one, fleeting as it may be, it is in the moments we shared that I relish, in the midst of all the ash.

Today I tell you, it is with a softer heart that I for one have so enjoyed you, we might not always agree, but there has always been a shared smile, word, or hug that has meant the world to me.

When we stop doing the doing-ness of life and giving a pause to see what is, it is you and me friend, it is we.

You know who you are; yes it is you and you and you, it is we.

What do you say?

Surely, there are a few of you out there, that think something more is possible, than this. There is something that will brighten the day that will make known a joyful sound. To be, in the know is where you wanna go. When people begin their share, their what, might be possible, with her what might be possible and his what, might be possible then, we have got something going. Tell you what, lets give fear the week off. Lets breathe deep and give flight to what wants to happen.  You can always go back to this.   If you are playing Pass it On

Stop Beating Yourself Up

Stop Beating Yourself Up

Right this day, this moment, simply stop, beat yourself, up no more.

When we stop telling ourselves that we can’t, won’t or couldn’t we will then have an opportunity if we choose to begin, underlining the word begin, to see things differently, ourselves and others differently, the world differently.

When we cease the racket that is ever pervasive, and slow to a measure in time more conducive to the process of allowing.  When we allow, ourselves to aspire, to expand our being, our thinking, or doing, in ways that best realize the unique gift and talents we have to offer we will begin to realize why we are here.

The trap is to allow; most are constantly treading in the disallow using up energy, time and lives, disallowing one’s own greatness to shine.  

It doesn’t have to be that way.   

Its Really No Secret.

But really, if we think that there is something out there, this really big something and we are just waiting to see… then shame on us. If we are thinking there is not much we can do, who are you speaking for? If we choose to do what we have been doing, without raising the bar so to speak then we have what we have. maybe.

Today we can start to become clear about where we want to steer ours lives, our country which includes everyone of us, but really, no one is left out. We have what it takes; you and me, we have the fortitude, the where with all however we might be coming up a little short on passion/compassion perhaps we have been too quick to grab ours because there is “less to go around”, and that is not true and we have been told a lie. We do have enough to go around and when it goes around it multiplies itself, where there was one, there are many.

Today we can start to give thought to what that might look like, and then start the actions into play, to create something we have the say in, something to be proud and is working well at all levels. Doable yes, but will we, well we will just have to see. Its really no secret.

So what are we up to and I think you should know. For more years that I could count on all digits, I have always wanted to have a conversation about running a business and creating relationship, creating community.. Thriving communities saying yes, to how great it really can be. Disclosure: I had a good talk with myself, this past May I turned 60 and I thought what in the hell would I be waiting for but really. Far too many years have been spent, in “wouldn’t it be great if” and hoping someone else would say yes. Well given, turning sixty, I am not waiting any longer and I pretty much don’t care. Creating a space for people who are currently a business owner or giving thought of launching a business would come together. We are not going to tell you how to run your business you already know how to do that. We are going to lead a conversation, as to what, who, why where and when of business, evoking different perspectives from which to look at your business and we are going to have fun. Lightening-up and getting serious will be something we will look at. Being resourceful, engaged and a visionary for your business could bare great fruit. Having an opportunity to keep your projects, in existence, to have a place to speak what you are up to and then produce the result just cause, you said so. We look forward to you coming and welcome you to bring a friend, we request only that you look for value, and then just see what shows up. Tuesday night is our first meeting and it will be great that you are there. Robert Bilheimer Robert Chun

Changing It Up

Changing it up, it is what needs to happen. Doing the same thing over and over and over, is not only boring it produces so little. When you have people lined up to get to your place of business it is perfectly fine to do it; over and over. If that is not the case take a good look at what your practices are and first look at how much time is consumed and what is the result you are getting. People spend too much time becoming proficient at tasks that probably; should be done, away with. Throwing out the SOPs is first order of business, what has happened to innovation, imagination, fortitude and a good dose of gumption. Business might not be so good simply because we are not so good. Wake up, open your eyes and look to see what is possible… when you actually look to what is missing, and the presence of that which is missing, would move your business in a whole, new direction with you in the drivers seat this, is a game worth playing I would say. Unlocking, your mind, as well as the door in the morning, is where you want to start. Today, more than ever, when the dime is a little thinner, we all have to be a whole lot smarter or we lose. People need our services, do they , do they really? Human beings are moving about ,most times quite aimlessly looking for someone to take care of them and their needs. That is where business gets its beginning. Servicing the needs of people, and how you design your business; needs, must be in alignment. In what you offer and has to be so good, that you cannot get it anywhere else is what you want to shoot for, or you can be the person that takes great pride in your business and time with your clients. Shifting our thinking is an intricate part of being able to see beyond our current horizon, to something that inspires action. Doing it skillfully, with ease and with passion is what deepens the desire to use your services. Your knowledge can either help you or hurt you depending, on how it is positioned. Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBD Community room: 7:00 to 8:45 Free to you, just be willing to look for value at every turn. Designed for Existing Businesses or Start Ups Sponsored by Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: robertbilheimer@gmail.com RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.

Time Flies not

Taking time, to Take time.

What is the rush we think is happening and where does it come from and where does it go? There is a penchant to rush, and should we see someone, who is not rushing it is often, met with distain. Taking time to take time, can be so rewarding and life changing and is something you cannot pay for. You really have no more or no less than the opportunity. Life is full and most times fast and it is only when one takes time is it possible to take time.

Life is something so fleeting and when we take time, the world seems to alter. JImi White a very special man and my very dear friend, I met along the path told me something in which I hold dear. Japanese saying; “when you stand still, the world backs up”.

In business and all facets of life for that matter if we were to take time, to say thank you. Take time to make the call. To say hello, Take time to be the special person you are, it could have the world be; a little lighter and a whole lot brighter.

Take time to do the best job possible. Take time to reread. Take time to breathe deep. Take time to smile. Take time to say I love you and mean it. To feel the sun and feel the breeze. Looking for the sunset and waiting for the moon. Take time to root for someone. Tell them you care.

Imagine a world where people care people caring about themselves, caring about others. Do you think, that might have a positive impact in our business and in our lives, I do.


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So What's With Excitement?

Excitement

Be excited about what you do. No kidding, if it is knowledge, you have a gift in, share it with others. Bring something quite special into view. Let people into your life, enjoy life and enjoy sharing it with others. There is something they have that they will be able to share with you. If it is Art, display it, show it, sing it, and write it. But share it. . What is missing… could be you.

Take a moment, to tell 2 people a week what you do, certainly you can do more but start with 2 Something you like about what you do, an experience, outcome, moment of appreciation. Lets breathe life into the conversation not deaden it. Along the lines of just being there, see how the other person or people are reacting to what you are saying. Remember to breathe life into. Give something away; a smile, a wink, compliment, word of appreciation and just see what happens.

Today more than ever, it should be a very good idea for people to share more with one another. People who experience something in a positive way have a tendency to repeat that experience over again. And it could be over and over, for years if not lifetimes.

When you think about what excites you, there is a chance, be a slight one that you will have to think more than you might think. Because the excitement, might have been buried, by the things we tell ourselves, and so there is a chance we have left out the excitement when it comes to our work, or to our lives.

If you are having a difficult time locating excitement, look for enjoyment, or pleasing idea or concept. This is to be fun so if it is occurring to be “hard” what is the story you have around excitement.

When you begin to allow yourself to kind of, dabble with these practices, you might experience a couple of different sensations at first there might feeling of an awkward moment. it is just a second, before you get your balance, know that your balance is there. Kind of, like riding a bike for the first time, remember that first sensation of balance, once you feel balance you know it. Creating a conversation, that; is going to empower you and the people around you is where you want to put your focus. This is more about allowing than it is about effort. When we let go of those things that do not serve us and let them really go, there will be space to experience something quite new and most times rather enjoyable. Remember to breathe. Remember to lighten up. This is an opportunity most times for lessening effort. Effort is something that shows up when resistance is present. Trying to make sense of something usually is, grounded in, referencing the past. Trust yourself and the moment to be the right time and the right place.

Remember the times, in your life, where excitement showed up, you know that kind of giddy anticipation of something great is going to happen bring that to your business/life and watch what happens. Get excited and your world will follow suit We feel If you are going to put the time in anyway, you might like to have more fun and money along the way.

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Sponsored by
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RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.

Taking It to the Next Level

Willing to raise the bar 5%,

I knew that this is going to be something I could do and I started to look to see just what that might look like. I actually became a bit excited because I am thinking 5% no sweat I can do that.

When one is able to see the value in; the extra thought, task, or concept that will be raising the bar, one’s energy is on the rise. It puts oomph, where there was none. Juices begin to flow ideas begin to roll when you can actually see value in what you are up to. Having fun helps this process to be undergone in an Up- beat manner that will definitely catch others off guard.

What is going on, what is happening with her or him… with you. When one, begins to acknowledge; just who they are, and all they have to offer. It might be a bit like tooting your own horn but you will not have to, for others will sing your praise. Doing more than what you, are expected to do is a great way in which to start.

This is good news… not bad news. Really it is, you shine when you are in the zone. When your commitment is bigger than, the drab ever, familiar tales we tell ourselves, we are actually able to move mountains

When one thing leads to the next thing, to the next thing we are in “the zone”. When, we find that we are more excited about what we offer, and the job we do, there is a very noticeable verve in the air and it starts in our speaking, then spells into our being, our actions, our new ideas and concepts and enhances all areas of our lives

Putting more into what you do, is something that changes up the game. Puts you in the driver seat so where you, are headed is your call, you now have the say so, no longer at the effect of, you will find yourself out in front and leading the way… and we are talking 5 percent.

Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn. Existing Businesses or Start Ups come lets talk.

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Conversations Drive the Bus

Conversations:

What are the conversations you have, either spoken or in thought about your business? The conversations you have with others and with ourselves, directly influence not only our business… but also pretty much spills over to all areas of our lives. We really do a number on ourselves and then we tell ourselves it is true.

Are you having conversations that lift and breathe life in to your business or conversations that suck the air right out of the space? This is not just limited to business but again spills over to other areas if you just look.

We have an opportunity to step back (you got to know I have never been big on the word opportunity because I always held it as OMG so much work for “this opportunity”) it is not until later did I find out that opportunity can actually mean less effort. So go with me on this one and we can take: a look, then you can decide.

Also, know, this plays out in all those conversations we have in our head. You know the conversations that; then you fill in the blank and just what that blank is for you, is what is real to you. It is not until we realize, wake up, have that uha ha moment call it what it is, for you, we will most probably continue to be pretty much on the same path.

We can begin, to sift through and quickly discard the shaft, the shaft we have all hashed and rehashed and which is for all practical purposes, useless to this moment in time. For those who say not so fast and wish to lug your stories and all the rightness you are welcome to lug but do not expect others tow it for you. In addition, know you can do it, just as long as you want.

We: the you-s and the me-s have so much to offer and to be thankful for, and yet we are just “getting by” with any luck. Got to tell you, I just have this notion you may call me crazy, I know it might be too big of a notion but we really do feel we all could be doing so much better. If we just stop, see what is there, then create the game that it is going to bring more fun and more money into 2012 and we do not have to stop there.

Free to you: Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBA: 7:00 to 8:45 , just be willing to look for value at every turn.
Existing Businesses or Start Ups

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John Assaraf interviews... Max Simon 7/13/2010 #SuccessManifestors

John Assaraf interviews... Max Simon 7/13/2010 #SuccessManifestors


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It is about as fun as you are.

I had to laugh when I found myself making an evaluation has to the time frame this business will be going out of business. Then I again laughed thinking what would I tell this guy he needed to do, to turn his boat around? What in the hell would I say. Given one shot what would it be? I thought, and then came up with well a couple of things. If you well indulge, First off "Why in the world would anybody want to come in and spend, what is probably on a little thin dime,with you. WHY? He would probably look at me and say What? I would look at him and say why? Which he in turn would respond with a what? There you have it. The why versus the what and the why is where I think you want to look first. Why? There needs to be something that connects; people have many, many choices. That is not saying that any of them are good choices they are just choices. So something needs to connect. This guy has done everything he knew to do. He did it, as he knew to do it. It is only a matter of time.