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Damn it goes fast

One day everything is going right along, the next day and it seems like yesterday you struggle to get the button buttoned and the shoes tied. Sometimes after a bit of struggle I am so glad I got it buttoned I forget to zip. It all goes so fast. Not fair I am thinking not fair at all. When it is so in your face and on your face what can one say?

Getting the most out of each day is so very important for us all, however as we get older there is more of an urgency to it all. So many days and years have passed and there really is no going back which portends to simply squeeze it a bit and get the full taste of that certain something that has been calling you.

Life is so unpredictable better eat your dessert first, is very good advice when you stop to think about it… but really. When we stop, to focus on the things that mean the most to us, there better be something there for you.

Life is forever passing, when one stands still, the world backs up or does it, have you ever tried?

We need to connect with one another and with our surroundings in ways that renew and lift up the essence of really who we are and the love we have to give. When we get out of our own way, is when we have the best chance.

Making some sense of it

Making some sense of it, as years have passed, now in great number I have come to see how important and quite special moments we have shared, have truly been. You need not wait till you are old and grey to say I love you, thank so very much. It means a lot to me. You have been there all along. When I think back to the times of joy, laughing so hard we couldn’t stop. Teasing with love and begging to stop. Shared a good cry or filling your glass with a smile in your eye. So precious and yet never spoken, we have but one, fleeting as it may be, it is in the moments we shared that I relish, in the midst of all the ash.

Today I tell you, it is with a softer heart that I for one have so enjoyed you, we might not always agree, but there has always been a shared smile, word, or hug that has meant the world to me.

When we stop doing the doing-ness of life and giving a pause to see what is, it is you and me friend, it is we.

You know who you are; yes it is you and you and you, it is we.

What do you say?

Surely, there are a few of you out there, that think something more is possible, than this. There is something that will brighten the day that will make known a joyful sound. To be, in the know is where you wanna go. When people begin their share, their what, might be possible, with her what might be possible and his what, might be possible then, we have got something going. Tell you what, lets give fear the week off. Lets breathe deep and give flight to what wants to happen.  You can always go back to this.   If you are playing Pass it On

Stop Beating Yourself Up

Stop Beating Yourself Up

Right this day, this moment, simply stop, beat yourself, up no more.

When we stop telling ourselves that we can’t, won’t or couldn’t we will then have an opportunity if we choose to begin, underlining the word begin, to see things differently, ourselves and others differently, the world differently.

When we cease the racket that is ever pervasive, and slow to a measure in time more conducive to the process of allowing.  When we allow, ourselves to aspire, to expand our being, our thinking, or doing, in ways that best realize the unique gift and talents we have to offer we will begin to realize why we are here.

The trap is to allow; most are constantly treading in the disallow using up energy, time and lives, disallowing one’s own greatness to shine.  

It doesn’t have to be that way.   

Its Really No Secret.

But really, if we think that there is something out there, this really big something and we are just waiting to see… then shame on us. If we are thinking there is not much we can do, who are you speaking for? If we choose to do what we have been doing, without raising the bar so to speak then we have what we have. maybe.

Today we can start to become clear about where we want to steer ours lives, our country which includes everyone of us, but really, no one is left out. We have what it takes; you and me, we have the fortitude, the where with all however we might be coming up a little short on passion/compassion perhaps we have been too quick to grab ours because there is “less to go around”, and that is not true and we have been told a lie. We do have enough to go around and when it goes around it multiplies itself, where there was one, there are many.

Today we can start to give thought to what that might look like, and then start the actions into play, to create something we have the say in, something to be proud and is working well at all levels. Doable yes, but will we, well we will just have to see. Its really no secret.

So what are we up to and I think you should know. For more years that I could count on all digits, I have always wanted to have a conversation about running a business and creating relationship, creating community.. Thriving communities saying yes, to how great it really can be. Disclosure: I had a good talk with myself, this past May I turned 60 and I thought what in the hell would I be waiting for but really. Far too many years have been spent, in “wouldn’t it be great if” and hoping someone else would say yes. Well given, turning sixty, I am not waiting any longer and I pretty much don’t care. Creating a space for people who are currently a business owner or giving thought of launching a business would come together. We are not going to tell you how to run your business you already know how to do that. We are going to lead a conversation, as to what, who, why where and when of business, evoking different perspectives from which to look at your business and we are going to have fun. Lightening-up and getting serious will be something we will look at. Being resourceful, engaged and a visionary for your business could bare great fruit. Having an opportunity to keep your projects, in existence, to have a place to speak what you are up to and then produce the result just cause, you said so. We look forward to you coming and welcome you to bring a friend, we request only that you look for value, and then just see what shows up. Tuesday night is our first meeting and it will be great that you are there. Robert Bilheimer Robert Chun

Changing It Up

Changing it up, it is what needs to happen. Doing the same thing over and over and over, is not only boring it produces so little. When you have people lined up to get to your place of business it is perfectly fine to do it; over and over. If that is not the case take a good look at what your practices are and first look at how much time is consumed and what is the result you are getting. People spend too much time becoming proficient at tasks that probably; should be done, away with. Throwing out the SOPs is first order of business, what has happened to innovation, imagination, fortitude and a good dose of gumption. Business might not be so good simply because we are not so good. Wake up, open your eyes and look to see what is possible… when you actually look to what is missing, and the presence of that which is missing, would move your business in a whole, new direction with you in the drivers seat this, is a game worth playing I would say. Unlocking, your mind, as well as the door in the morning, is where you want to start. Today, more than ever, when the dime is a little thinner, we all have to be a whole lot smarter or we lose. People need our services, do they , do they really? Human beings are moving about ,most times quite aimlessly looking for someone to take care of them and their needs. That is where business gets its beginning. Servicing the needs of people, and how you design your business; needs, must be in alignment. In what you offer and has to be so good, that you cannot get it anywhere else is what you want to shoot for, or you can be the person that takes great pride in your business and time with your clients. Shifting our thinking is an intricate part of being able to see beyond our current horizon, to something that inspires action. Doing it skillfully, with ease and with passion is what deepens the desire to use your services. Your knowledge can either help you or hurt you depending, on how it is positioned. Business Inquiry: held Tuesday evenings, TBD Community room: 7:00 to 8:45 Free to you, just be willing to look for value at every turn. Designed for Existing Businesses or Start Ups Sponsored by Your, Success by Design: Robert Bilheimer: robertbilheimer@gmail.com RSC Business Associates: Robert Chun: rsc@rscbusinessgroup.com.