Thursday, August 20, 2015

Enough Already

Enough already with the: “how little can I do”, enough, enough, enough. Start coming from, what more can I do, and how can I help you? Your life will be far happier, and far more successful. Care more about what you do and how you do it. This, is what is missing, everywhere! BUT REALLY! Don’t be happy with doing so little and being put out about it. So much more can be gained and it is not about the gaining it is about the giving and in the giving there is the gaining, but the giving comes first. SO get off it, nobody cares about all your reasons. Your reasons are nothing more than reasons for playing small. WHO CARES? NO ONE! Oh sure, you might be able to get a little agreement from those who play small, but that is not where the game is won.

 Be happy with the job you do, and the service or product you deliver that is what counts. Spend more time listening and thinking how you can make this great. But really leave all of the excuses behind, you are someone who doesn’t need to rely on excuses. Excuses are nothing more than, why you didn’t Forget it, excuses give you nothing and will always give you nothing. Be someone, you can count on, and watch how your world evolves. To: higher levels, opening doors and climbing ladders where excuses would never lead you.

 Excuses have very little if any benefit. In fact all excuses do, is keep you stuck. When so little is count-on-able; be a star in the very dark sky. Be someone, you are proud to be. When people find out because of your example the world takes on a whole new glow. Don’t hesitate and don’t take my word for it, try it out for yourself.

Next time opportunity is knocking and you will know when it is, try it out. Be someone who listens, gets it and is more than willing, able and ready to do what needs to be done. Be someone but really be SOMEONE and watch as you are doing it, how your world changes all for the better.

The secret is really not a secret you know and I know when you are playing full out time passes without a care. Doing what you love to do helps but is not always required. Your word, your determination your willingness to be great really is all that matters and it is only because you said so.

Try it and just see what happens

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Looking inside out and rather liking it.

There is something inside our conversation we have with and in ourselves that puts the kibosh on it, without any hesitation wham it’s there. Not always but sometimes it stems back to a decision we made be true, probably in upset that has guided us thus far undistinguished as such, leaving little or no room for spontaneity, a whim, a gush of good thought to lead the way to excitement. Only when we choose not to give up and say that that we want shall it ever come. Being open is a struggle for many in varying degrees. And if you think that isn’t bad enough wait till you hear this. We most times spend an inordinate amount of time in negative thoughts and words, listen to what we tell ourselves. Notice the conversations that go on in your head, oh pretty much constantly and what are they saying are they lifting you up or burying you? The conversations we have with others exhilarating or exasperating? Notice the words others banter about there is a certain omnipresence the water we swim the air we breathe. You need to decide on that which you want, because if you don’t it won’t be there and just know all of it, is up to you. Good news, bad news however you call it is up to you. But really when you really can get that it is all up to you, that is when you can start to fly, but really. Get it and Fly. Our thoughts, our perceptions, ways in which we see the world are so, the deciding factor. No kidding you need to look no further, there it is and you know what, you want to get this, IT is good news. It is good news if you choose to treat it so. There is no, maybe and maybe not. It is decided in our speaking, in our listening, in our way of being, Good news, bad news it is what you choose. We are here and what we decide to do or not do, is really all on us. Taking ourselves out of the game I don’t know about you, but that is something I am becoming more aware of, a thrown way of being I have, I now choose to have a say in that ongoing, and not just remove myself. If you want it you can have it but it requires that we wake up, get up, step to the plate and take action. It is good news only if we say so and I am asking you to say yes so we have a place in which to begin. Being ready is a help but not always required. Many spend their lives just getting ready but never move beyond ready. “I am not ready” is often murmured. I would like to suggest “ready” is over rated. It has a tendency to slow our thinking and our ways of being, imagine not being ready and see what you get. I like better ready or not here I come and let the chips fall where they may. You want to sing, start singing. You want to dance get out on the floor and dance. Write what are you waiting for? Learn, be a great learner. Teach, be the best you can be, what would we be waiting for? It is our game and the limits are our doing, it is not until we get that, do we have a choice.

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Disconnect from within and from without

Disconnect is very prevalent, look around and see all of the; disconnect in life. We might all see different aspects of this disconnect, but there will be a theme which resonates that most likely, is a direct reflection or frequency of our, current being. Not anything to get upset about but simply to notice. Most of this is never conscience to us, we move as we will, through life never truly present to the choice in life, ongoing we spend time in our heads, inside of a critical banter, constant assessment, that leaves us half deflated and kind of waiting for the next blow and we don’t have to.